Author Archive for Sandy Rose
A changing of the LL&L guard!
It’s because of you, your submissions and your feedback, that Life Love and Lust took “Best Blog” in the California College Media Association Awards. Now that I’m nearly finished here, it’s almost impossible for me to give it up. I can’t tell you how grateful I am to you for your willingness to share your stories and questions with me and the rest of the UC Irvine community. The column truly would not have been the same without you.
Intimate Inquiries
Sandy,
I’ve been dating a guy for eight months, but he would never make a move. The most we ever did was hug when we saw each other and hug when we left. Last Thursday though, he came to visit me here at UCI, and we actually hooked up. It was really nice, pretty romantic.
I didn’t [...]
Intimate Inquiries
Dear Sandy,
My boyfriend and I have been trying to make shower-sex work, but we haven’t really had the best time of it (slipping around, can’t find a good position, etc.) What do you recommend trying in the shower?
-Sudsy in the Shower
Dear Sudsy,
Running water, soap and ceramic surfaces aren’t exactly the best recipe for a sex [...]
Intimate Inquiries
Good evening, Sandy!
Nice to meet you!
Thank you for your sincere service for college students regarding dating and relationship!
My name is Pilgrim. As it is shown in my name, I am a Christian, who pursues the meaning of life in God.
As a consequence, many parts of my life are governed by biblical principles. During my lifetime, [...]
Intimate Inquiries
Dear Sandy,
I have insatiable sexual desires when it comes to feet. Now that spring is coming around and girls are starting to wear their sandals more, I’m finding it harder and harder to concentrate on schoolwork and to control my urges. I get hard at inconvenient times, like during lecture when I’m trying as hard [...]
Campus Dating
Sandy,
My girlfriend and I have been testing out bondage little by little. One thing that we both really like is just using handcuffs to lock each other up and mess around. The only problem is that the handcuffs we’ve gotten in the past aren’t really too durable. A few times they’ve opened up without even [...]
Intimate Inquiries
Dear Sandy,
My boyfriend has always been pretty kinky and I am usually able to keep up with him pretty well. For the past few weeks, though, he has been asking if he can cum on my face. Personally, I think it’s a little bit degrading, but I’ve been thinking about it because he really wants [...]
Campus Dating
Dear Sandy,
I have not dated or had sex with any guys since I broke up with my boyfriend over two years ago. I have had opportunities but can never seem to go through with it. It’s not that I don’t want to do it – it’s just that every time I get close I think [...]
Off-Limit Lovers
Dear Sandy,
My friend broke up with her (very longtime) boyfriend about two months ago – let’s call him Jake. Over the four years while she was going out with Jake, our group of girls became pretty good friends with his group of guys, so it’s been pretty much impossible to not hang out with them. [...]
Life, Love and Lust
Hey Sandy,
So there’s this girl I met over the weekend. We had a good time and what not. We planned another date which will consist of church, snowboarding, bagels, and cream cheese. I guess you can call it another “hang out” session. I forgot to get her number down. But when I ask for her [...]
