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Sandy,
I met my girlfriend in my dorm my freshman year – we go to the same school – and we really hit it off. The next year we ended up being in the same apartment complex (we don’t live in the same apartment, just the complex) and have been for the past quarter.
At first, I [...]

I am kind of a superficial guy–every chance I get, I check girls out. I love looking at girls. However, I recently started having feelings for one girl, let’s call her, Mediocre Mary. As her name implies, she is not so cute, but her personality is bomb. I don’t know what to do, and while this may seem like an easy answer, looks are a huge deal to me. What can I do to maybe see her differently or get over her?

My boyfriend has been bugging me about going on birth control so he can stop wearing condoms when we have sex. He says that every time he puts a condom on it turns him off. I’ve been thinking about doing it, but I just can’t get past the fact that I’m putting chemicals in my body and risking weight gain and emotional roller coasters. We’ve been trying just having sex until we absolutely have to put the condom on but that just feels unsafe.

I’m a young mom who used to work from home. Recently, I’ve taken a pay cut and my husband’s job cut his hours down. I’m worried about what I’m going to be getting my family members (especially my kids) this Christmas. How do I get them to understand what’s happening? What should I do to keep Christmas the way it always has been?

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Sometimes, when I engage myself in sexual behavior, I like to wear the clothes of the opposite sex and it turns me on a lot. But the girlfriends that I’ve done this with, and my current one, don’t like it and I was wondering if somehow there is a way to make them more comfortable [...]

Dear Sandy,
How do I make a sex with woman??? Thank you please.
-Chef

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Hello my lusty little anteaters!
I hope you’re ready and waiting for the debut of the new Life Love and Lust column arriving October 5.
Don’t know what we’re all about? Well, I’ve got you covered. Here’s a brief description of the column:
Part advice and part investigative, this column has everything you can think of in [...]