When Cheating on Your Significant Other Isn’t as Bad as it Seems

ZOT IN THE CITY: It’s unforgivable, unforgettable and it forever remains on that list of regrets. But regardless of all the tears, the hard feelings, the guilt and the repercussions, cheating happens. When I heard that not one, but two of my good friends had cheated on their boyfriends, my once firm conviction that cheating was a bad act committed by bad people, no matter the circumstances, began to falter.

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Lovin’ Long-Distance Style

ZOT IN THE CITY: Every phone call puts a smile on my face, every weekend brings excitement to the end of a long work-week, every moment usually spent arguing is now spent laughing. No, this is not the honeymoon stage of a fleeting, fanciful relationship: this is loving long-distance.

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Straddling the Boundaries: Where Do We Go From Here?

ZOT IN THE CITY: As I listen to the Beach Boys sweetly croon, “Wouldn’t it be nice if we were older? Then we wouldn’t have to wait so long,” I can’t help but commiserate. Sometimes I think that if Brandon and I were just a few years older, a few years wiser, more mature and had solid jobs, I could stop feeling like I’m constantly walking on eggshells while I wait to see if our relationship will blossom into something more.

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